day in the life

So I haven’t posted in ages, but I myself didn’t even know what was going on in my own life, so I decided to hold back from blogging until I figured things out. I had no idea what to do when my team was dissolved at Johnson & Johnson, and grabbed the first position that opened up to me in Hong Kong: to be a lifestyle writer at a tourism magazine. That decision was based on a combination of things, pressure from my father being no small factor, and then just generally sustaining myself in such an expensive city being another big one. I was thinking - this is my chance to go to South America! But I buckled under the uncertainty of that road, putting it off for another year or two. (Mark my words though, it will happen one day…)

And so there I was, not convinced I was cut out to do writing for a living (I’m too used to writing for purely selfish reasons, and I absolutely hate my content being dictated upon), but things slowly fell into place, I suppose. Food tasting in 5-star restaurants every week - not so bad, I thought. And then there’s my schedule for tomorrow afternoon:

3.30 – 4:30pm Interview with Sheraton Hong Kong’s Managing Director at the Wineroom on the 18th floor

5:00 - 6:30pm Tasting session of the Sky Lounge’s Royal Afternoon Tea Set featuring the new May promotion

7:00pm Sheraton Social Hour cocktail event

Is this for real?? Is this my actual job?! Well, out the window go my corporate aspirations (at least for now), and in goes not taking myself too seriously again… if I ever really did, that is.

x

"He knew women early, and since they spoiled him he became contemptuous of them, the young virgins because they were ignorant, of the others because they were hysterical about things which in his overwhelming self-absorption he took for granted."

— The Great Gatsby, F. Scott Fitzgerald

I cannot believe this film wasn’t nominated for best Original Score in the Oscar’s. Music was amazing.

This film is a far cry from the kind I normally like, and I found myself having difficulty getting over the general grime and lack of structure at the beginning, but it was worth overcoming.

I haven’t written here in a while, and I’ve been meaning to for such a long time now but have never found the time. The post I regret not doing the most is my 2012 review - I feel I need to do this, no matter how late, because 2012 was an unbelievable year and I did so much more than I probably have ever done in my life thus far. 2013 will have to fight to fill in those shoes.

Some general life updates - I’m flying to San Francisco next Thursday for my cousin’s wedding, but other than that, not much travel plans for the rest of the year, just a vague one for Singapore in May. And like I think I’ve mentioned before, I don’t really mind not traveling for a long time. Time to whet my appetite a little, and more importantly, focus on work. I have a contract with Johnson & Johnson’s regional office in Hong Kong until October this year, and fingers crossed will extend at least a year more after that. My boss has already told me his intent, so I’m looking at at least 2 years with this company. I’m so keen to get my career off the ground, and am busting my ass (pardon my French) to make that happen. 2013 will be all about my professional life - no more crazy stuff for now, saving that for later!

Oh, and belated Happy New Year everybody!

xx


too tired from work to blog but here’s a picture and a song
ahhhh almost the weekend!!!!
xx
zzzzzz

too tired from work to blog but here’s a picture and a song

ahhhh almost the weekend!!!!

xx

zzzzzz

SO BORED at a 5++ hour layover at Kuala Lumpur. To make things worse, Downton Abbey stopped streaming HALFWAY through the LAST EPISODE of the first season! Oh my god whyyyy

Got practically ZERO sleep on my last night in Jakarta. Aside from packing and showering after dinner (at SKYE) and KTV (at T-REX Grand Indo), a few other things kept me up: 

1. After closing all the lights and trying to sleep on the couch, I started freaking out because my laptop kept getting brighter, waking me up even if I would keep turning off the brightness. I couldn’t very well shut down when I needed to download the remaining episodes of Downton Abbey. Was there a ghost turning up the brightness? It happened a couple of times or more. My laptop is haunted. Or Tiff’s flat is haunted…

2. I was beginning to doze when a burst of water dripped out of the faucet (or tap, as the Brits would say) startling me awake. Was a ghost trying to wash his/her hands??

3. I creeped into Tiff’s bedroom like a coward at 4am and tried to get at least an hour’s shut-eye (for my 8am flight) beside her. But just as I was pulling up the covers, the Islamic call to prayer began, and I swear this morning they were extra enthusiastic about it (was it because of the holiday?). They were literally screaming at the top of their lungs, the whole congregation. No offense meant, all I’m saying is this made it impossible to sleep.

I was DEAD by the time I got to Soekarno-Hatta. I won’t even need a costume for Halloween tomorrow, my face is enough to scare people. My brain was struggling to communicate with the ‘taksi’ driver who, like everyone else in Indonesia, would not believe that I could not speak Bahasa. 

At this point I seriously don’t want to get on another plane again for the next 6 months, but alas travel won’t leave me alone! Can’t say I didn’t ask for it - be careful what you wish for? Gus bought me tickets to Singapore for ZoukOut as a birthday present, and then two trips to Manila in December have been set.. ahhhhhhhh

The biggest tragedy of our Indonesia trip: Joyce bringing the wrong charger for her camera. Followed by my failure to bring a camera at all.. hence all our pictures being of substandard iPhone quality.. weep..

Tomorrow: Flying back to Hong Kong! Finally,finally, received my visa in the mail a couple of days back in Jakarta and am all set to start work! After the Halloween celebrations, that is.. anyone out in HK this Wednesday? :)

Anonymous asked: I miss you. You're really a great friend. I hope theres a way where we can mend our past. I'm so happy you're doing well in life. I never doubt that. You'll be successful. Thank you for everything. - someone who misses you

Dear Someone Who Misses Me,

Whoever you are, I’m glad you considered me to be a great friend, I’m sure there’s a time and a way to mend our past, and thank you for being happy for me. I’m not quite sure I’m doing as well as I should, but I am becoming happier with how things are panning out. I will honestly try my best to be successful, and you’re welcome (I do hope I deserve your gratitude).

Yeni

Make Up Review: Sephora Liquid Eyeliner

Being incredibly huge on liquid eyeliner for almost a year now, I thought it was only natural to share with you my discoveries in that realm after a year of obsession. But before that, I’d like to give a backgrounder on it: I only became really obsessed with eye make-up since my trip to Japan in October 2011. Japanese girls apply an unbelievable amount of eye make-up (think double falsies, layers and layers of eye shadow, large-iris contact lenses, etc.), and I felt challenged (knowing my eyes were bigger than theirs) to outdo their big-eyeness. 

My two biggest weapons: black liquid liner and a brown eyebrow pencil. That’s it. The only two things I really need in my everyday make up kit. The effects are dramatic, trust me.

I used to try to make my eyebrows straight like Koreans

but since watching Bollywood films (especially ‘Jodha Akbar’ starring Aishwarya Rai) I’ve been doing more dramatic arches:

So anyway, let’s get to the point - the worst branded liquid eyeliner on earth, ladies and gentlemen: Sephora liquid eyeliner!

noir black. what a joke! trying to fancy up the crappy fading colour of this thing.

the least precise application tip ever, just splattering black all over your lid

right after applying it, double wing

after a night out. HORRIBLE! Can you see that ink bleeding on my eyelid on the right??

So basically, that’s it. I bought this stupid thing in Sephora on Qian’Men Da Jie in Beijing out of desperation because my Revlon ColorStay Eyeliner in Blackest Black (one of the best affordable eyeliners out there - the HK version has a better smudge-free formula than the Philippine one though) was running out. I paid around 90RMB for Sephora while Revlon is just around 70HKD but 10 times better! Ugh!

PS. My cousin who does marketing for Majolica Majorca told my sister and I that Filipinos are not heavy on eye make-up; rather, they obsess over lipstick. I am just the opposite. Such a shame that Pinays don’t highlight their beautiful big eyes! It’s one of our best advantages over East Asians! :)

Something in the water – Brooke Fraser by richardbudd

Mid-Autumn Festival Weekend, but for us Philippine babies, summer never ends!

(Joanna - next to me in the picture - reminded me of one of the stories behind the mid-Autumn Festival (as celebrated by the Chinese): the lunar harvest festival is supposedly the only day in the year in which two mythological characters are able to meet. I can’t remember the back story and Wikipedia gives a much too long-winded one, so I’ll leave it at that)

*taken at the former Chito Madrigal Estate at Calatagan, Batangas, Philippines

my sister and I have some strange ideas as to the reason why we were born only one day apart, but that story is not one for sharing… Happy Birthday week to us, it’s been a chill one and we’re happy to be spending it together (we’ve realised sisterly time is becoming increasingly rare, making the celebration even more special)

*taken in Ho Chi Minh City, Vietnam December 2010; pictures remixed, thought a song remix would be a nice touch - listen to the rest of the song, I loved it from the moment I heard the vocals