My sister and I discovered something that shocked us today.
I woke up at 2:30pm and rushed to get dressed and out of the house as we were scheduled to visit lola (grandmother) today. After a few mishaps, we were able to get ourselves to Pampanga following a two-hour drive from Manila. 
Over dinner, our lola revealed who our nearest Spanish ancestor was: her father’s grandfather was a friar. She said this was why her grandfather and his brothers inherited 150 hectares of land, and why the descendants got sugar and rice plantations and orchards scattered around Sta. Rita and Guagua (most of these our family already gave up after the government-decreed land reforms.. unlike some other landowners out there…).
Lola told us how her father had been fluent in Spanish, but that she had lived during the American Period and had learned hardly any. That her grandfather was an extremely proper man and always wore socks inside the house. She said the Lansang lines were split after the friar came into the picture, and afterwards the descendants of the friar were all landed and educated in Manila (my family has apparently been studying in Ateneo since the 1800s), and the other side of the family didn’t receive as much privileges. 
She also mentioned something about Chinese ancestry, but I don’t remember who exactly and how far back… I only know my grandfather on my father’s side is 1/2 Chinese and so that makes me more than 1/8 Chinese if there’s some other unknown mix from way back. 
Sorry for boring you all to death, anyhow. Picture pilfered from Mark Bulahao..

My sister and I discovered something that shocked us today.

I woke up at 2:30pm and rushed to get dressed and out of the house as we were scheduled to visit lola (grandmother) today. After a few mishaps, we were able to get ourselves to Pampanga following a two-hour drive from Manila.

Over dinner, our lola revealed who our nearest Spanish ancestor was: her father’s grandfather was a friar. She said this was why her grandfather and his brothers inherited 150 hectares of land, and why the descendants got sugar and rice plantations and orchards scattered around Sta. Rita and Guagua (most of these our family already gave up after the government-decreed land reforms.. unlike some other landowners out there…).

Lola told us how her father had been fluent in Spanish, but that she had lived during the American Period and had learned hardly any. That her grandfather was an extremely proper man and always wore socks inside the house. She said the Lansang lines were split after the friar came into the picture, and afterwards the descendants of the friar were all landed and educated in Manila (my family has apparently been studying in Ateneo since the 1800s), and the other side of the family didn’t receive as much privileges.

She also mentioned something about Chinese ancestry, but I don’t remember who exactly and how far back… I only know my grandfather on my father’s side is 1/2 Chinese and so that makes me more than 1/8 Chinese if there’s some other unknown mix from way back.

Sorry for boring you all to death, anyhow. Picture pilfered from Mark Bulahao.
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it’s that time of year again…

(No, not Christmas…) Almost exactly last year, I flew to Bacolod City (more or less an hour’s flight from Manila) for arguably the biggest festival/street party in the Philippines - the MassKara Festival.

(from Wikipedia:) The MassKara Festival is a festival held each year in Bacolod City, the capital of Negros Occidental province, every October. The word “MassKara” was coined from the word “mass” meaning “many” or “a multitude of the people”, and the Spanish word cara meaning “face”.

A prominent feature of the festival is the mask worn by participants; these are always adorned with smiling faces. MassKara thus means a multitude of smiling faces. The word is also a pun on maskara, the Filipino term for “mask”:

unwearable masks being sold on the street

venturing out for food on our 1st morning in town

the famous Bacolod Chicken Inasal at Manokan Express

dark Chocolate Ice Cream at SM Bacolod

fresh oysters at only 10 pesos a pop (if I remember correctly)!

waiting for the performers

impulsively got a balloon that refused to stay up

with Sabs for dinner at Trattoria Uma located along Lacson St near the L’Fisher Hotel

Some photos are from Tam’s camera - the nice ones, mostly! haha. I need to get my hands on that magical lens. (View the entire album from the Canon DSLR here and from the digicam here)

I find it hard to believe that this was already (or only) a year ago. So much has changed since then. I somehow still wish I could go back… I would have done things much more differently. If only I had the chance.

first weekend home

I flew into Manila from Hong Kong on midnight early today, and in a few hours will be flying back to Hong Kong. I had such an unexpectedly happy feeling when I saw the lights of Manila twinkling below right before landing. I wasn’t exactly excited about coming home after just a month and a half in Hong Kong, but it came to me when it sank in that I was coming home.

Tomorrow, I’ll be flying back to HKIA, but rather than from Manila, I’ll be coming from Clark (two hours’ drive away from the capital) as I’m currently in Pampanga (the central plains of Luzon) for my Lola’s (grandmother’s) 80th Birthday Celebration. 

At the airplane last night, after I had accomplished my Arrival Card for the Philippine Immigration, my seatmate, in a painfully awkward way, asked me in broken English if I could help her fill out her Arrival and Customs declaration cards. She was apparently illiterate in English, and had been gathering the courage to ask me for help with it. I immediately obliged, of course, and asked her, in similarly broken Mandarin, for her details which I needed for her cards.

Another random thought - I was thrilled to completely surpass Hong Kong Immigration at the airport last night. It was my first time to travel with an HKID, which allows me to pass through an electronic gate instead of lining up at the immigration counters. I was trying to act cool and oh-so-casual when I did it, but I was ecstatic when I, MTR-like, swiped my card at the electronic gate, scanned my thumb, and just walked into the boarding gates zone. I mean even in the Philippines, where I’m a citizen, I still have to line up for immigration.

With barely any sleep, I drove my sister and I to Pampanga at 8AM this morning, where we practiced our performance the whole two hours on the road. My eyes were bloodshot and swollen from lack of sleep, and my vocal chords were barely functional anymore, so I downed two capsules of Vitamin C and forged on.

Here’s a shot of our performance during the event (held at King’s Royal Hotel and Resort Leisure Park, San Fernando, Pampanga):

We opened the program in front of around 270 people, mostly family and family friends. We opened with “Cabaret”, followed by Joyce’s rendition of “All that Jazz,” mine of “Roxie” (from Chicago as well), and then concluded the number with Amy Winehouse’s “Valerie”.

My sister and I doing the can-can

Our shiny costumes were purchased from the Mongkok Night Market (I bought them with Debbie last Sunday and then exchanged an ill-fitting white dress for the blue one with Dutch Alex on Monday… I bought him a drink for his praiseworthy negotiation skills that night..). 

Minutes before the performance, I had to rip apart the inner seam of my dress (with a blackberry charger, no less) to remove the pads, which made my boobs look inordinately and slaggishly huge… you would think I would have appreciated that after living without all my life, but I actually hated it.

And to our insecurity, the upcoming and professional trio, the Opera Belles, performed right after us. 

Got to catch up with Jam, one of the Opera Belles, my kabarkada and close friend since Elementary! <3 (Excuse the terrible cropped picture, I’ll probably be replacing this with the decent shot Karla Gutierrez has on her camera when I get my hands on it)

with my cousins Cath, Jacq, and Ange (plus Joyce, my sister, of course)

My God, I missed them so much, I am going to be downright desolate tomorrow spending an entire Sunday in solitude. I idiotically booked the 7am flight and not the 7pm flight. Incredibly depressed about that.

And lastly, me. With my wounded lips, new hair, and slagdress. 

xx,

Yeni

That&#8217;s it, goodbye corporate rat race in the Philippines&#8230; I thought I would be afraid to let go of that, I never thought I would say no after 5 interviews, but now that I&#8217;m here, I wouldn&#8217;t have had it any other way. It&#8217;s so liberating :)
xx

That’s it, goodbye corporate rat race in the Philippines… I thought I would be afraid to let go of that, I never thought I would say no after 5 interviews, but now that I’m here, I wouldn’t have had it any other way. It’s so liberating :)

xx

Toast Box!

I was supposed to eat in “Shiok” that day, but then chanced upon another great Singaporean restaurant along Rizal Drive in Bonifacio Global City - “Toast Box” ! Always game for new things, I opted to dine there instead, and did not regret it!


the counter


their Milo Dinosaur, which is soo much better than Shiok’s (uber concentrated, just the way I like it! Not diluted at all :> )


was this Nasi Goreng? Anyway, it was good!


and the classic Chicken Rice (Hainanese-style) - yumm! Almost as good as the ones in Singapore, where incidentally I was at last weekend. But I didn’t eat Hainanese there, I ate roasted Chicken Rice all the way, complete with MSG-doused rice and all, for lunch and dinner, almost everyday. Except for that one lunch when I almost burned my throat eating overpriced laksa at Universal Studios. :|

And while we’re on the Singaporean food topic, there’s this hole in the wall but to-die-for-delicious “Singapore Chicken Rice” place my sister and I randomly found in Cubao, near Shopwise. Their black pork adobo and not the chicken rice, ironically, was my favorite.

More on my Singapore trip last weekend next time  :)

xxx

Jesi Mendez Salon Review - If you want a haircut from the hearing impaired.

Was this me 6 years ago? you ask.

No, this was me after I had a “trim” from Jesi Mendez Salon a few hours ago. If you want a haircut from people who don’t bother listening to you when you tell them how you want your hair styled, then go to this salon. 

I’m usually really fussy about where I get my hair done, but a while ago, after having my underarms lasered at Park Square while waiting for my dad to finish gyming, I had time to kill. I needed a trim anyway, so I thought to myself “Why not? What could go wrong?” WRONG.

I know, I know. It’s not that bad. But look at this:

That was me five years ago!!! It’s like I never changed. I know it’s different for caucasian people, but I don’t really wanna go back to the way I looked when I was 19, which translates to looking like a 12 year old in most people’s eyes. Could you fault me for wanting to look a little more mature and sophisticated? Ha ha.

Kidding aside, the stylists at Jesi Mendez probably haven’t taken any hair dressing refresher courses since 2005, since they don’t know any other way to cut hair. Oh, and let’s not forget the ear checkup - I said side swept bangs below the eyebrows, no layers, and a 1 inch trim. Simple right? Not for them, I guess.

xxx,

Yeni

PS. Hope you all had a great weekend!

PPS. I have nothing against the hearing impaired. Just against those who choose to be.

Filipinos cannot progress if they cannot follow even simple guidelines | Get Real Post

botherjoseph:

A mash-up of the most interesting- and true- parts.

There is very little evidence that Filipinos are capable of living by the “rule of law”. The society is quite extraordinary in the sense that simple rules and regulations whether on the road or in the work place are for the most part ignored.

Filipinos are good at playing the “victim card” because they are very sensitive and emotional people. They play the victim card in front of the public to get as much attention as possible. Filipinos always try to get around following any rules and regulations or even simple guidelines by appealing to emotion.

Filipinos in general are incapable of any form of discipline because they focus more on form rather than substance. In short, they want to stand out. They lack the discipline to engage in discussions in a civilized way and lack the discipline to not turn a public forum into a circus.

From the top guys and gals sitting behind desks at the Presidential office down to the tricycle driver down the road, everyone just wants to have “fun” in the Philippines first before tackling the problems of the land in a more serious manner.

Filipinos are proud of being a happy-go-lucky society and make it a point to show the rest of the world that they are coping with smiling faces despite the dire circumstances they face. This mentality shows that Filipinos are satisfied with mediocrity and find striving for excellence too daunting.

Basically: it’s all your fault.

Sad, but true.

(via lovewesay)

Payslip

Payslip 
By Marc Anthony M. Peralta
Philippine Daily Inquirer
First Posted 06:35:00 03/15/2011

Filed Under: Employment, Youth, Graft & Corruption
WHETHER THEY work in the private or public sector, employees have two most anticipated days in every month. These two days determine the routines of the other days. Yes, they are that powerful: the when and where of those other days greatly depend on the figures written on their payslips. Those figures tell the places an employee could go to, and what he would eat, see and hear.

Those figures are there for a purpose. They measure one’s place in the hierarchy. One payslip can take you to a lounge, while another would be good enough for a diner.

They go even deeper to determine the routines employees have. The buses may be the same, the clothes similar, but one glance at the damn payslip can help one decide what breakfast he will have.

It is like an invisible force transcending the consciousness of man. One wishes to do this, be there, or have something at one particular time. Yet, one chooses not to, not because of want, but due to the power of that small piece of paper. And so the world is circumscribed, its attractions made scarce, while hopes remain plenty. If only the figures will be different, perhaps things will also be different.

I suppose it is the natural order of things. If everyone can afford to buy a car, traffic will not move anymore. Yes, we need order, we need peace, we need—payslips.

I do not mind. I work, and I get paid. I get what I deserve. I know what place to go to, what food to eat, and what things to buy. These may be less but they may not be more than what I can afford with my pay. It is the order to which I belong. I accept it, and live with it—until some realizations hit back.

The figures on the payslip are riddled with deductions: withholding tax, SSS, Medicare, etc. The figures are unforgivable: they add up to a big chunk of my salary. It stings and it stinks. It is like investing in imaginary trash. It hurts, but the government seems not to care.

The reports of corruption are not pleasing. Corruption is a limitation on one’s choices. Instead of steak, settle for fish. Instead of Europe, try Singapore. Instead of a BMW, go for a Toyota. One’s choices become limited because of some corrupt military officers or lawmakers or high government officials. They ought to feel guilty about it. It is my steak they eat, and my European trip that they and their family are enjoying. And yes, that BMW’s tail lights belong to me.

Look at the figures.

(Marc Anthony M. Peralta, 27, works in a government agency.)

Redundant, inefficient, cumbersome, useless- why our airport procedures don’t - INQUIRER.net, Philippine News for Filipinos

Excerpt:

WE ARE staunch advocates of local tourism. We strongly believe responsible eco-tourism is a good driver of sustainable economic development. If there is anything we Filipinos can be proud of, it is the unparalleled physical beauty of our country, and the inner beauty of our people.

But those of us who travel extensively know how cumbersome, inefficient and opportunistic our travel systems are, particularly our airports and seaports.

Take the case of the gateways of the country: our airports. There has been a marked improvement in the physical facilities of our airports, for which we congratulate those responsible for them. However, there is so much that needs to be done to upgrade our services and make our airports truly world-class.

We invite your attention to the tedious process of checking in and out of our airports—the first and last stop of all local and international travelers. The objective of a good airport is to make travel procedures as seamless and efficient as possible. Instead, ours have become perfect examples of bureaucracy, inefficiency, and what airport systems should NOT be.

and that’s not all, folks.

I Hate PhilPost

Another word of warning to you all: If your friends or relatives are sending anything to you from abroad, don’t course it through the government-run post office (PhilPost). Choose any private carrier (FedEx, DHL, anything), or you’re in for one big pain in the ass customs battle.

My aunt bought me this Coach bag as a gift:

and sent it to me via the US Post under my dad’s name.

A month later, we got the claim stub with a tax computation that amounted to P5,000.00++! 

below was their FIRST computation:

Customs Duty

$375.00 X 43.79

16, 454.09 X 15% (Rate of Duty)

 = Php P2,460.00

Other Charges and Fees

Customs Documentary Stamp  P250.00

Customs Duty P250.00

BIR Documentary Stamp P15.00

Expanded Value Added Tax

Dutiable Value in Peso P16,454.09

Customs Duty P2,468.11

Other Charges and Fees P515.00

TOTAL P19,437.00

X12% (EVAT Rate) P2,332.46

SUMMARY

Customs Duty P2,468.00

EVAT P2,332.00

IPF P250.00

CDS P250.00

BIR Stamp P15.00

TOTAL      PHP5,315.00-

My dad went there to claim the bag, and asked for a rebate. They lowered the price to P4,000.00++. That was still too high for us. I mean, we were practically paying 1/3 the price of the bag. I might as well buy myself a new bag for all the taxes I was paying for with this one.

I mean, my aunt already paid for shipping and taxes in the US. And this is a GIFT. And yet I have to pay 12% VAT plus customs to the post office. As if my income tax, SSS, PhilHealth, and Pag-Ibig contributions aren’t enough! And as if the tax that I pay is going to do me (or the Post Office, for that matter) any good! I mean, the place hasn’t been renovated in 100 years! And I’m not even joking, if you see the place, the PO boxes are seriously antiques.

They sent us a final notice recently (two months after the first one), and it said they were either going to send it back or dispose of the parcel if not claimed. EXCUSE ME. As if it’s theirs to dispose of in the first place! Instead of disposing it, why don’t they just GIVE it to me?!! For God’s Sakes. 

NOT TO MENTION the utterly RUDE post office personnel who threw my ID and Claim Stub at me, saying I couldn’t claim the parcel as it was under my dad’s name. Talk about adding insult to injury. If it were up to me, I would pepper spray him in the face.

Here’s the sample computation of the PhilPost *insert vile name here*: (this is the amended one)

I cannot believe all the random sh*t I have to pay for (what the f are all these damn stamps for?!! IPF?? CDS??) just to get my bag! They are robbing me of my hard-earned money.

As of this point, I have no clue how I’m going to get my package without paying exorbitant and unacceptable fees. Any suggestions?

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